“Life is all about timing... the unreachable becomes reachable, the unavailable become available, the unattainable... attainable. Have the patience, wait it out. It's all about timing.” -Stacey Charter
Have you ever wanted something so badly you thought you would DIE if you didn't get it? I don't mean lit'rally die, but figuratively. Like you would figuratively die a little inside if you didn't get it. Maybe it was the job you think is perfect. Maybe its the man or woman you think you ought to marry. Maybe its the friendship or network you wanted so eagerly to build. Then, it doesn't work out and you feel a little piece of you slip away. Before you allow yourself to feel that sinking feeling, step back and remind yourself that LIFE is all about timing. On second that, allow yourself to feel that sinking feeling. Relish in it so that you understand what it is like to not get what you want. Allow it to humble you and force you to re-evaluate yourself. That person you thought was so perfect for you but wasn't ready to be in a relationship? Its not their time. That job you thought you would be the perfect fit for? Its not the perfect time for that either. Develop a level of patience that allows you to wait for when the time is right without always forcing things prematurely. You should continue to give things your all, but if they don't work out remember the 3 forms of time: HIS time, HER time and GOD's time. You wanted thing to work on HIS time or HER time without regard for God's time. Understand that if God has decided it is time for you to receive a blessing, no man or woman can close that door. On the flip side, if you make the mistake of living on HIS or HER time by believing you can FORCE the timing if it is not yet right you are only setting yourself up to be disappointed. Wait on God's time. If you don't believe in God, thats fine too. Although, I'm not sure what the equivalent would be. I guess you should wait on karma's time(??). Today's Song Choice: Mary J. Blige-25/8 Spread Love! |
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